Guidance needed: HeaderMap doesn't allow setting multiple values for a header (needed for set-cookie)
Hi!

When creating a custom Apollo Server Plugin, in the `willSendResponse` method, we might want to copy the response headers from subgraphs back down the the user's request - particularly for `set-cookie`.

(This problem also exists in theory for [`x-forwarded-for`](https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/HTTP/Headers/X-Forwarded-For#examples) too fwiw)

`HeaderMap` is defined as a simple subclass of `Map<string, string>`:
https://github.com/apollographql/apollo-server/blob/6ff88e87c52f4d6734c36fda96be07d4f8ad80cc/packages/server/src/utils/HeaderMap.ts#L1

So we can't do `response.http.headers.append('set-cookie', 'foo')` (this worked in prior versions of apollo, where I think we were using more of minifetch/node-fetch for this layer?)

It's also unclear how to serialize multiple set-cookie values into a single string - the `cookie` npm module (defacto standard, used by express) explicitly (correctly) doesn't support this https://github.com/jshttp/cookie/issues/129#issuecomment-957344975

I would suggest either:
1) provide guidance on how to concat and encode multiple set-cookie values into a single string (is this supported? I can't find where this is defined in spec)
2) Change HeaderMap: `Map<string, string>` => `Map<string, string | Array<string>>`?

Thanks!