Behavior plugin is not updating when removing lines from `tags.json5`
### Summary

When I add behavior tag in the `tags.json5` file, for example `+filterBy`, it instantly adds the filter on the input and
I can see it in ruru/graphiql. But when I comment that line or remove it, the schema is not updated until I will restart the server.

### Steps to reproduce

Here is the [reproducible](https://github.com/hos/watch-issue-reproducible/blob/main/tags.json5#L17-L18) using `ouch-my-finger`.
I used this sql
```sql
create table public.users(name text);
```

### Expected results

I expect the schema to be updated, as if there was no tag at all.

### Actual results

Schema is updated only after server restart if the text is removed from the `tags.json5` file.
If I replace `+filterBy` with `-filterBy` and vice-versa, it updates, but when I remove the line
schema stays the same until the restart.

### Additional context

Node v22.11
All the deps are update to the latest version of the moment of writing in the reproducible. 

### Possible Solution

Not a solution, but, I guess it may be related to this [issue (discord message)](https://discord.com/channels/489127045289476126/498852330754801666/1296235207334039637).
