Unable to control accessory from iPhone
### Current Situation

I have an accessory installed:
homebridge-garagedoor-command v0.8.4 by apexad - (https://www.npmjs.com/~apexad)

And it works as expected from the accessory tab via the browser (from a computer on the lan) AND I get the notifications on my phone, however I am unable to control the plugin from the iPhone, as it reports as "No response".

I have tried running the accessory as part of Homebridge and as a child process but neither work, if I remove and reinstall the bridge on the iPhone, it initially reports the correct status, but if I try to use it it will timeout and report "This accessory is not responding"

Incidentally I did have home bridge and this plugin working on a raspberry pi (that died a while ago) so it is either something to do with the version of home bridge 1.6.0 or the MacOS.

I did read some comments about downgrading to version 1.5.1 but I don't see anyway of getting that version.

Any insights much appreciated.



### Logs

```markdown
homebridge log:
Setup Payload:
X-HM://0023RR2XFQH17
Enter this code with your HomeKit app on your iOS device to pair with Homebridge:
                       
    ┌────────────┐     
    │ -> I deleted this <-
    └────────────┘     
                       
[3/3/2023, 12:03:55 PM] Homebridge v1.6.0 (HAP v0.11.0) (Homebridge) is running on port 51892.
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] [Garage Door] Launched child bridge with PID 5212
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] Registering accessory 'homebridge-garagedoor-command.GarageCommand'
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] [Garage Door] Loaded homebridge-garagedoor-command v0.8.4 child bridge successfully
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] Loaded 0 cached accessories from cachedAccessories.0EE18FDC5B4E.
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] Publishing bridge accessory (name: Garage Door, publishInfo: {
  username: '0E:E1:8F:DC:5B:4E',
  port: 37659,
  pincode: '***-**-***',
  category: 2,
  bind: [ 'en0', [length]: 1 ],
  mdns: undefined,
  addIdentifyingMaterial: true,
  advertiser: 'bonjour-hap'
}).
[3/3/2023, 12:03:56 PM] Homebridge v1.6.0 (HAP v0.11.0) (Garage Door) is running on port 37659.
[3/3/2023, 12:03:57 PM] [Garage Door] State of Garage Door is: OPENING
```


### Configuration

```json
{
    "bridge": {
        "name": "Homebridge",
        "username": "0E:D5:5D:5E:D7:35",
        "port": 51892,
        "pin": "-> I deleted this <-",
        "advertiser": "bonjour-hap",
        "bind": [
            "en0"
        ]
    },
    "accessories": [
        {
            "name": "Garage Door",
            "open": "/Users/jeffr/Home/open.sh",
            "close": "/Users/jeffr/Home/close.sh",
            "state": "/Users/jeffr/Home/status.sh",
            "status_update_delay": 10,
            "poll_state_delay": 30,
            "log_polling": true,
            "accessory": "GarageCommand",
            "_bridge": {
                "username": "0E:E1:8F:DC:5B:4E",
                "port": 37659
            }
        }
    ],
    "platforms": [
        {
            "name": "Config",
            "port": 8581,
            "platform": "config"
        }
    ],
    "disabledPlugins": []
}
```


### Environment

- OS:
- Software:
- Node:
- npm:

MacOS 12.6.3
node -v gives: v19.7.0
npm -v gives: 9.5.0





### Process Supervisor

hb-service

### Additional Context

If I run this from the terminal:

curl 10.0.1.164:37659
{"status":-70409}%      

curl 10.0.1.164:51892
{"status":-70409}%  

Not sure if the has any bearing