connections @1.8

Hello, looks like the connection limit doesn't  affect real number of them since recent changes... At least, outgoing ones:
![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/93492811/156847230-fa58d566-dcf1-4016-b6b7-545877732fca.png)
Seems like a bug.
I've got some short disconnects from my isp though (~5 min).
`monerod.exe --data-dir \"%~dp0BC\" --log-file nul --rpc-restricted-bind-ip %IP% --rpc-restricted-bind-port xxxxx --no-igd --zmq-pub tcp://127.0.0.1:yyyyy --disable-dns-checkpoints --max-txpool-weight 104857600 --p2p-external-port zzzzz --out-peers 12 --in-peers 10 --limit-rate-down 4096 --limit-rate-up 256\""`

`p2pool.exe --loglevel 0 --host 127.0.0.1 --stratum %IP%:xxx --rpc-port yyy --zmq-port zzz --p2p 0.0.0.0:aaa --out-peers 12 --in-peers 10 --wallet %WLT%\""`