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Seems like he's cheating on her with you. I mean, he's already cheating on you with her.
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"content": "NTA. Sheesh, no offense but your past isn't even that colorful! Like mild beige at best.",
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"content": "It’s pearl white in my book 😂🤭\n\nIf she knew they were friends, beige accepted.",
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Wait the STBx posted here too?? Do you have the link??
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And that's why I'm a dude. I'm not sure if I've ever heard of a guy who dated 3 girls in 7years and it was considered a colorful past. What if it was his son would she have been cool with this?
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NTA. He took your car last week after you told me you needed it for work. He's not going to respect your boundaries. Get him out of you life as soon a you can.
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Well, I'm 55 and I've been in a 19-year relationship with my partner. I've dated a few guys, but I'm not a "thot" and I'm not "colorful." I'm just me. I'm not going to be insulted by a guy who's been with me for 19 years, and I'm certainly not going to return a birthday gift because of it. I'd be more insulted if he'd said something like, "I'm not going back to a woman who's been around so many men." That would be a real insult, and I'd be hurt. But I'd be even more hurt if he'd insulted me in front of my friends. I would have a lot to say to him, and I would not be returning a gift. I think he's a jerk, and I think he needs to be kicked to curb. I don't think he's the one who's out of his mind. I do think he's out of line, but I don't see him as being out of his damn mind.
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Can you math? 20 calls in 24 hours? That's 1 call every 72 minutes. That's not a lot of calls. If he's calling every 15 minutes, that's 96 calls in 1 day. I'm not sure how you can call someone 20+ times in a day and not be cheating. I mean, maybe he's calling her to tell her that he's cheating on her with Jessica. But that's a stretch.
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Well, I could see a guy being ashamed of his past, but I don't see how that would make him a good partner. I mean, I'm sure he's not the only one who's had a "colorful" past, and I'm sure that he's not going to be the only one to ever have a "colorfull" past. I'm not sure why he's so ashamed of it, but I'm not going to let that be a reason to stay with him. I think that he's just being a jerk, and I think that you're right to leave him.
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NTA you are not a thot and you are not petty you are a victim of his disgusting behaviour
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